This blog is by people with breasts, for people with breasts. This blog is inclusive of all people with breasts, regardless of gender. It celebrates the beautiful diversity of breasts, of all sizes, shapes, colours, ages and races. Breasts are such an important and integral part of what makes us feel beautiful and sexual. By showing how all breasts are different, and uniquely special, we will be able to challenge the beliefs around what makes breasts beautiful. There is no single standard for breast beauty! By sharing photos we are demonstrating how every breast is different, and in turn, we will be able to help people with breasts feel better about themselves, improve self-esteem, and show that yes, you are normal.
NOTE: This blog shows photos depicting nudity in a non-sexual setting, and contains written content with adult themes. Photo submissions showing nudity are to be from people 18+ only.
I’m just going to ask you some questions for now:
- What’s wrong with puffy areolae?
- Why do you hate them so much?
- Why do you think you feel that way?
- What influences are driving your hatred for your breasts?
- Are those influences valid?
- If someone said something about them in the past, would you take their advice or consider their opinion valid for anything else in your life? eg financial advice?
- Appearance aside, how do they feel?
- What’s more important, how they feel or how they look?
- Who defines what is beautiful about breasts, nipples and areolae?
- Do they have the right to do that?
I’d really like you to think about this and reply if you’re able.
If a guy gets hard looking at a topless woman that’s his problem, not hers. If a man can’t control his urges then he needs to see a psychiatrist. Nipples are nipples, regardless of gender.
You’re so wrong; breasts are no more sexual organs than earlobes. They are there to feed babies. They are heavily sexualised (by sexist society), and yes they are erogenous, but so are other non-obscene and readily visible parts of the body, like those earlobes. By your logic mouths are sexual organs too. Have you ever sucked on a partner’s genitals? Ever talked dirty? Should we all be wearing gags? Male nipples are just as erogenous as female, and yet it’s generally ok for a guy to expose his, show them on Facebook etc, but for some reason women’s are obscene. Why? Why is it acceptable to show every other square cm of female breast skin but not the areolae and nipple? Why are they obscene? Why do we need protection from them? Are they dangerous? Is it because men can’t control their penises and their sexual and/or violent urges?
If people don’t want to show their breasts or any part of their body, then great. That’s their right. But why isn’t it equally other people’s right to walk down the street with their breasts out? I’m not saying that people of any gender should go topless, and there are practical reasons not to, but I absolutely support their right to do so. If it’s socially acceptable for a man to take off his shirt on a hot day why can’t a woman? It defies all logic. Anywhere and any time that it’s acceptable for a man to expose his nipples is equally appropriate for a woman to do it too.
FYI most local authorities controlling beaches in Australia either allow it outright or tolerate it without drama. In most places throughout Europe this is totally a non-issue, as Europeans in general are far broader-minded when it comes to bodies and nudity. It’s legal to be topless in Canada. And FYI it’s legal in many cities throughout the US, including New York City for a woman to walk down the street topless. But yet the social stigma remains.
Frankly after running my blogs for a couple of years I am seriously becoming an advocate of nudism. If we all just walked around naked all this body shaming paranoia and damaging anxiety about whether this is too big?, or is this too small?, or is this too droopy?, or what will teen boys think?, or am I abnormal? would all go away. We could see each other for the skin machines that we are and get on with being decent human beings and interact on a person-to-person level without all the bullshit hang ups about our bodies.
And you know what, if that does happen your breasts will still be the beautiful, sexual, sensual, fun, feminine and wonderful things that they are now. Because quite frankly all boobs are awesome and unique.
That’s how it works for me! If I put any weight on it’s all bum, thighs and belly. If I lose it, it’s from my boobs lol. In reality it’s a bit more evenly spread, but yes, breast size can and does fluctuate with weight changes.
Anonymous Comment: “I really like the idea of this blog but it sucks to still feel like I’m not included. I have big areolae but am unfortunately on the smaller side. Big areolae are normally seen on bigger breasts but as someone unfortunately cursed with small ones I feel like a freak. Having small boobs sucks enough as it is and big areolae on top of it makes everyday a struggle for me. I wonder if I’ll ever be able to look at my boobs someday without crying or hating myself.”
Oh they sound great! I love large areolae and on smaller boobs it looks awesome. Why be so down on yourself? Small breasts are gorgeous for starters. Cursed? Are you kidding?!? And there’s absolutely nothing unattractive about large areolae. Wow, i really hope you can very soon appreciate how great your boobs really are. Anyone lucky enough to get to see them would think they are delightful, sexy, feminine and gorgeous too. Trust me on that.
If you’re over 18 I strongly encourage you to submit a photo so you can start to see your breasts more objectively - many people find that they see themselves totally differently (positively) when they have their photos on my blog.
It’s probably what are called Montgomery glands, which show as small bumps on your areolae. Here are some posts about them. They are sebaceous (oily) glands which help lubricate the areolae and nipple. They are really important for breast feeding because they secrete a scent which newborns use as a type of GPS for finding were the nipple is.
If yours are sometimes dark and sore they might be infected and inflamed, like pimples. They can also sometimes get filled with gunk like blackheads.
It’s not likely to be cancer, so stop worrying about that. But as with anything else on your body you’re worried about then it’s a good idea to see a doctor to put your mind at ease.
It tends to be that one breast is larger than the other, but there’s nothing abnormal about having two exactly the same size.
I’m far from being an expert in bra sizing, but I do know that cup size is proportional to band size, so that every D or DD is different across band sizes. So that’s why you may think your breasts aren’t big enough to fit a DD. Here’s an infographic that explains it. Hope it helps.